Happy Hump Day (thats what wednesdays are called, no sexual reference)?

ok everyone, so heres part 2 to the family christmas dilema. I asked a question before about a rude sister-in-law who asked my Fiance and I to bring to much for Christmas dinner, well now its taken a turn for the rude! In reponse to the email she sent me I told her I would be happy to bring 2 pies and some soda because we’re not drinking due to a long drive back to wisconsin.
She responsed with: Don’t worry about the pop, I already bought plenty.
RUDE!!!
Then she sent a second email she sent said this:
Ok so to recap:: you are bringing 2 pies and some bread, no beer because you are not drinking. Sounds good. See you then.
Even ruder if you ask me!
The question is do you think I am wrong to not want to go now. I am starting a new life with my fiance and want to start my own traditions. I didn’t want to go in the first place because her side of the family is going to be there and they are very rude. I just hate being uncomfortable on christmas!
I know this could have gone in another category, but i need lots of resonses!!! Thank you for answering sorry for it being so long!!!!
the thing is, she is only making the main course and my fiance and i are broke. we are barely able to afford the drive down. He wants to spend the day in his pajamas watching tv. Thats how things used to be with my parents until my brother got married to his controlling wife!

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i read it and to me i don’t feel she was being rude.. (maybe it’s because i’ve seen worse lol)

this is why no one should bring anything but a smile on the face and bring your own food so no one can complain "why did u bring this why did she bring that" lol

enjoy Christmas hun.. just know that there are tons of rude people in this world, but to me she might not know what she has said was offensive to people

^?u